i feel so stuck.
i am married to a wonderful man.
i have been married for almost a decade and adore my husband.
If you are feeling depressed then you have to do something about the situation you are in.
No easy answers. Expressing your doubts would be a good start, especially if he's noticed something is wrong and would be inclined to be understanding. Gently and slowly, one point at a time.
The alternative is to stay in and act out the rest of your life. Only you will know if this is the best option or not but it doesn't sound like it.
they were afraid he would be df for something they did do instead of faceing possibility of being shunned commited suicide.
Nevuela
If you look in the Urban Dictionary you will find the term 'topping yourself' means suicide.
an old friend of mine committed suicide this week.
he was a great guy; pleasant to be around, a hard worker, kind.
everybody at work liked him.. then something changed.
The society uses shunning to control the people who know the one to be shunned. It is done as a 'self-serving' strategy for their own gain.
That is nothing near the reason for how you dealt with your friend. It's a totally different motive and perspective, even though it may look similar.
i still go to the meetings because of my in wife and it came about that the elders knew of my pissed off attitude about the society getting involved in the un.
so the elders said they could help me get over that and wanted to meet with me.
now just to let you know, i have only told my wife and her mom so far about it, that's it.
If you are worried about being labelled an apostate then just talking about the UN will be a huge mistake.
If the elders coming to see you do any kind of research on line, they will see that the UN issue is a favourite among apostates. You are therefore already at great risk of being accused of being one.
If you flash a UN letter under their noses, you will be hauled before a judicial committee quicker than you can say 'repentance'.
The fact they know you have been talking to either your wife or her mother has probably already put you in the position of actually being an apostate.
If you don't want to get booted out, it would be advisable for you to downplay what you know and keep all the information about the UN to yourself.
Best of luck on that one...
this site is great, i have been lurking for a while now.
but i can’t get reinstated and have used some of the advice already given.. i was df’d many months ago and go to all the meetings and do all the preparation for the meetings, but the jc committee keep refusing me.
tomorrow at the clam meeting i am puting yet another letter in and will be called for another dreadful jc meeting.. 1. what can i say to the elders to show that i am truly repentant?.
to save us all a lot of time and effort..... [some complex structure in living organisms described].
[i can't imagine how this could be the product of evolution].
[therefore god created it].
[You just don't want to believe in god because you are selfish. You know he exists really]
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
The Rebel-"That was option B) equally split."
'Split equally' is putting both bills together and dividing by two, which may or may not be fair depending on how much either person eats.
Each person paying for their own meal means each person only pays for what they personally eat or drink.
Can make for a much cheaper date.
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
How about option D) each person pays their own bill.
McDonald's...! You could have at least taken her to Wimpy's.
this site is great, i have been lurking for a while now.
but i can’t get reinstated and have used some of the advice already given.. i was df’d many months ago and go to all the meetings and do all the preparation for the meetings, but the jc committee keep refusing me.
tomorrow at the clam meeting i am puting yet another letter in and will be called for another dreadful jc meeting.. 1. what can i say to the elders to show that i am truly repentant?.
NVR2L8-" Alarm bells..."a burning hell where people suffer for eternity" is a belief contrary to the JW doctrine...just saying."
Yes... Just waiting now for the controversial 'evolution' thread.
evolution paints human ancestors covered with fur.
fur has several benefits as stated by britannica "the pelts of fur-bearing animals are called true furs when they consist of two elements: a dense undercoat, called ground hair, and longer hairs, extending beyond that layer, called guard hair.
the principal function of ground hair is to maintain the animal’s body temperature; that of guard hair is to protect the underlying fur and skin and to shed rain or snow.".
xxBBxx-" Some posters can get awfully heated and upset."
Especially when they find they are talking to trolls.
